About The O

Let’s be honest—talking about pleasure and intimacy can feel a little awkward. But it doesn’t have to be. At Own Ur O, we’re making it easier (and way more fun) to explore connection, playfulness, and self-love without the weird looks or uncomfortable conversations.

Founded by Debbie Farah, a customer experience leader with over 25 years in business management, wellness, and helping people feel confident in their own skin. After 8 years working in the adult wellness world—and most recently earning her Relationship Coaching certification—Debbie knew it was time to create a space where pleasure, connection, and personal growth could finally come together.

Own Ur O is about creating real moments of connection. Whether through playful journals, intimacy card decks, curated pleasure products, or simply having the conversations we all wish someone started sooner—we’re here for it.

We're bold, cheeky, supportive—and always real. And we’re just getting started.

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Own Ur O is about creating real moments of connection.

Whether through playful journals, intimacy card decks, curated pleasure products, or simply having the conversations we all wish someone started sooner—we’re here for it.

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